I'm Saving for…

What paying bills is like for me…
And you'll notice that these aren't even American coins!

The last time I did a budget update (aside from the big new year's budget update) was May 2016.

MAY.

Do you know how much has happened since May of 2016?

+ We went on a road trip from Charleston, SC to Asheville, NC.
+ Then, we celebrated July 4th in New York City!
+ I loved exploring Brittany, France for my birthday and being in Paris for July 14th!
+ August was filled with beaches: first at Myrtle Beach in South Carolina with family, then at Clearwater Beach in Florida with friends.
+ We loved the road trip concept so much that we decided to check out the small towns near Callaway Gardens before heading east toward Savannah for our nephew's birthday.
+ There were a few trips to Asheville, NC thrown in where we went to see the beautiful Blue Ridge Parkway when it was at its peak in colorful leaves.
+ Finally, we went to Canada following Christmas and Hawai'i for Valentine's Day.

Busy 10 months, right?

Anyway, here's looking at how all of that affected us…

SPENDING:



So, five out of six months we've done absolutely horrendous at sticking to a budget AND spending less than we did the year before (green = this year; yellow = last). I am a bit surprised to see that December spending wasn't quite as bad as I expected, but all of the other months we went on big trips, specifically July and February look awful. And with regards to February, that was WITH me trying to balance out the spending for Hawai'i in the months before.

With the categories, you can see where our money is going. The big one being food. This includes groceries, restaurants, food eaten while traveling, drinks from bars, etc, etc… The next big category being travel. Because travel. #I'mAddicted

Over the next year, we expect to see auto and transport expenses go down since we are no longer paying for insurance on one of our three cars … or any expenses brought on by that third car, which kept breaking down on us … (We sold it!)

…and we are expecting to see our 'bills and utilities' expenses go up since we have one new bill. Argh. (Donations will probably go up in expense as well.)

Maybe I can continue to keep shopping to a minimum? I don't wear half of what is in my closet anyway and given our current circumstances, it's not like we need anything extra for the home.…

Let me break down a few additional categories for you:
+ Financial = life insurance for Justin (mine is separate).
+ Personal care = hair cuts, nail salons, etc…
+ Fees and Charges = charges for owning a credit card, nothing additional (like interest being charged or fees for bounced checks)
+ Uncategorized = money we've taken out of ATMs; usually spent on things like food, tips, or other various small expenses

MONTHLY NET INCOME (Are we spending more than we are making?):


Compared to last year's net income monthly average, we are saving approximately $541 now than we did then. In fact, last year we were barely staying above "water" compared to this year. So yay for that! :) I'll take any little bit of financial improvement.

NUMBERS:

• Net worth: -$55,000 (So don't sue us.)
• Nov. 2017 credit card payoff date
• May 2021 student loan payoff date
• Jun 2019 car loan payoff date
• Emergency Fund: $9,342 of $12,000 goal
• Retirement: $20,000

IN CONCLUSION:

While I know that absolutely none of my readers are interested in my finances, I appreciate you reading to the end (or skipping to the end). Seriously, it helps me to write posts like this so that I can stay accountable. (Because, you guys, I suck at finances. I think there is a reason I'm not a banker, an investor, or anything of that nature. I just spend and spend and spend…)

So, tips and tricks anyone? I know there is Dave Ramsey and the envelope method, but are there any apps out there to help conquer budgeting? Any mind tricks that encourage you to save more and spend less? Please share! Don't leave me in the dark! I really do need to get better at this! :)

* the reason for this post? #30lists. I mean dang it! I thought I had given up on being financially accountable. I was living the good life for a few months! Oh yeah, and in case it wasn't clear: we are saving for retirement, saving in an emergency fund, attempting to pay down debt, and … traveling when I see fit. :) Because #addiction.

2016 Financial Review


For the past few years (201320142015), I've been doing a financial review. My goal is to break free of my debt, and the following post documents my struggle. Currently, we have a car loan, a house worth of student loan debt, and credit cards. We also have life goals that involve travel and seeing the world before we reach our eventual impending doom.

First, the Debt:


Our student loan debt is headed downward, but we still have a long way to go. Last year, we refinanced my husband's student loans, at a lower interest than he initially was given from the bank, with Earnest which helped us pay down his loans a lot more quickly than we might could have otherwise. However, the purchase of a car has definitely slowed us down in our endeavor. Unfortunately, it was either purchase the car or lose my job so you can see where decisions had to be made.

Over the past few years, since 2013, our student loan debt has been decreasing by the thousands:

2014: - $1,733.85
2015: - $9,505.24
2016: - $8,850.99

The full payoff date is currently Apr. 2022, a full one-year improvement from last year! Yay!

The car loan debt we paid off was approximately $1,374.75 (in 7 months) and looks sad in comparison to our student loan debt payoff numbers, but I don't have access to the full amount of car loan debt we have paid off for the full year of 2016. Nevertheless, halfway through the year, in June, we refinanced our car loan so that we could drop our interest by a full percentage point. The goal, of course, was to lessen the full amount we owe and get our debt paid off sooner.


Our credit card debt is probably the worst of any of our debt because it's so hard to budget for. When you owe $0 for X number of months with 0% interest being added to your total, you spend those months paying off the debt you are paying interest on (namely the student loans and car loan), so we fell behind with this. The numbers themselves don't look too terrible, but when you see the decrease in our assets (next), you can understand why paying off credit cards can be frustrating. (Not that you don't already understand!)

2014: - $333.27
2015: - $521.69
2016: + $680.59
payoff: Sep. 2017 (10 months added)

Assets


At one point, due to car fixes and what-have-you, we were in a tailspin of trying to figure out which credit card to pay off so that we wouldn't get charged interest, all the while never paying off the total spend for all of the cards. Well, last month, Justin got tired of it and took the money from our savings account to cover the extra we were "behind" on. (Except, of course, we were never actually behind, just living paycheck to paycheck.) Anyway, you can see that decrease here. And I can accurately state that the decrease did happen within this past month. Right now, we are working to replenish what we took, a few hundred at a time, per paycheck. Unfortunately, with car insurance and renter's insurance due in the next month, the need for new tires, and two trips in the future, I don't foresee these numbers improving as much as I'd like for a bit. I can hope though…

2014: + $1,321.24
2015: - $49.04
2016: - $1794.51

Last year vs. This Year

green = ths year; yellow = last

My monthly goal from one year to the next is to always spend less in a given year (2016) than I did the year before (2015). Unfortunately, I fell behind this year in at least 6 out of 12 months. I suspect at some points I got tired and frustrated with budgeting. Then there were other months when we were travelling.

No excuses, really. I just have to keep working at it. As long as I'm putting in some amount of effort, I know that my husband and I can lower our spending and really pay down our debt. I just have to keep that motivation all year long, and that's hard to do. (Ever try blogging about a project you know you are failing at? It's hard to admit. And rather than being honest with yourself, you then start to deny it's a problem. UGH.)

Net income



Luckily, we only experienced two exceptionally bad months where we spent more than we made. And to be fair, I was given a calendar with dates (for those two months) that I would be working, only to discover, sometimes the day before, that I wouldn't actually be working those dates. *sigh* So not only was I not making money, but I didn't have an opportunity to find work for my now open days. It was frustrating.

Net worth


I'm so glad to see our net worth numbers rising. This shows me that even through all of my own faults and failures (like how we owe more on credit cards than last year) if we keep making even the smallest of improvements and working towards our goals, we can reach them. I just wish our net worth increase was as much as last years. That would have been nice. 2017 goal?

2014: + $3,388.36
2015: + $17,229.04
2016: + $5,184.21

Stocks up 11.02%

FEES


I started graphing our fees in 2014 when I noticed we weren't paying off our credit cards like we were supposed to be after we returned from a trip to Europe. Slowly but surely we opened up credit cards and moved our debt around so that we wouldn't be paying interest fees.

BUT then 2015 happened and I discovered I could get things and experiences from my credit cards. I opened a Disney Amex to save $200 on our trip there last November, a Delta Amex to save $95 and get free checked luggage, and the Chase Sapphire Preferred for its 50,000 Ultimate Reward points and fee-free use in Europe.

Basically, opening cards in 2015 (while they were free then) meant that in 2016, we had to decide whether or not to keep the cards and continue paying the fees or get rid of them. And, of course, in some cases, cancelling a card could mean the difference between keeping a large amount of credit and high credit score, or … not. So, I paid my $50 IHG fee and I'm getting a free room out of it. BUT I also paid my $95 Delta Amex fee, so that I could keep my measly $3,000 credit and not lower my 800 point credit score. *shrugs* And that, my friends, is why my husband and I paid more for credit cards this year than we did in 2015.

for owning a credit card (2016): $409
other (bank fees, interest): $246.54

compared to last year (2015)
for owning a credit card: $59
other (bank fees, interest): $136.69

Our real problem this year was the bank fees, which were surprisingly high. I'd love to blame them all on my husband for not calling the bank to get the fees removed or calculating bills while he was tired which definitely led to some of the problems, but I am just as much at fault for not understanding the three-day transfer system we have in the US. I thought, if I paid a bill the day it was due, I wouldn't get charged interest. It surprised me to discover that it takes three days for my cash to transfer and thus I get charged interest even if I THOUGHT I had paid on time. Consider 2016, a lesson learned the hard way. :-/

With that being said, in 2017:
• we need to drop Justin's Delta Amex ($95)
• Dop Venture ($59?)
• Drop Sapphire? ($95)
• Open a new Discover card. ($0 fee, 5% back on varying categories throughout the year.)


Overview of the biggest impacts on our finances in 2016:
1. Two trips to Europe: one in January and one in July.
2. Hawaii vacation planning.
3. More credit card fees. :(
4. Decent tax refund.
5. Plus, Justin got a raise!

So where were the downfalls? What went wrong financially this year?
1. Travel, travel, travel. But it was so worth it. (And that, my friends is wherein the struggle lies.)
2. Food. We suck at sticking to a food budget.
3. We didn't pay off as much credit card debt as we were hoping to.
4. Justin's credit score fell. :(
5. Fees, fees, and more fees. We need to get rid of credit cards we don't need, pay payments more than three days before they are due, and call the bank when we are charged a fee that we don't think we deserve.

What went right this year?
1. This:
yellow = last year; green = this year
1b. What I'm reading in the graph is that our money was spent more on experiences/good food than shopping and THAT makes me happy. :) (Also, I'm getting better at gifting things on the cheap. Woot!)
2. Paid off ONE credit card (out of 3).
3. Got the new Suntrust credit card offering 5% off of groceries for the first year.
3b. And the new Chase Reserve providing us with a $300 travel credit; 100,000 Ultimate Reward points (after $4,000 spend); and 3% back on travel and restaurants. :)
4. Bought a flight to Hawaii for $22 (and points)! ✈️
5. Raised my credit score to 800!

What are our plans/goals for next year?
1. Paying off at least one more credit card. (Preferably 2)
2. Sell Chrysler Sebring.
3. Spend less on shopping, food, gifts, travel (because points! I don't actually want to travel less.).
4. Lower the number of credit card interest fees and yearly account fees (or at least make sure the fees are worth the cost of the card).
5. Get Justin's credit score back up.

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Now that you've seen our financial review and 2017 goals for paying off our debt and raising our net worth, I'd love to know what you are doing to better your finances? Do you live paycheck or do you have a plan? … What do you think of our spending habits? Do you want to criticize and beat us over the head for spending on unnecessary things? … Or do you understand how difficult budgeting actually is? Do you have any tips for us? (Really, we'll take anything! We may not use it, but we'll at least hear you out!)

May Budget Update

Photo via VisualHunt

Some of you are new to my blog, so let me recap:

In the first few months of marriage, I let my husband handle all of the expenses. I didn't take time to look at anything financial. That was his job right? As husband? As "head of the household"? (Of course, this goes against the assumption that I would ever let anyone rule over me! I'm pretty stubborn.)

Anyway, only a few months into the marriage, I realized nothing was happening. Instead of our debts being paid down, we were … doing the opposite?

So, with pen and paper in hand I wrote out all of our monthly expenses. I organized our bills so that, the two times of month Justin got paid, would be split evenly among all. (My payment schedule used to be monthly and is now weekly, so we've never gone by that.)

The experience of writing down all of our bills and splitting them up was excruciating, time consuming, and hurt my non-analytical brain. To make matters worse, I didn't even get everything right! I missed accounting for a large number of bills! The first month an extra charge occurred for a bill I hadn't account for, I found myself in shock! Was I going to have to go through the whole process again?

Well, the answer was yes. By December of 2012, I was at it again. Comparing our budgets and breaking them apart, making them work for us rather than against us. That's when I realized that budgeting and dealing with finances is not a one time thing; it's something you have to do over and over and over again…

I started blogging about my financial goals to keep me in check. Blog readers are a great way to keep one accountable to their goals.

And so, once a month (typically), I update the blog on #moneyMonday sharing where I am and what I have achieved. I've definitely noticed in the time since beginning this project that what is going on in my life and how stressed I am definitely affects how well I do on any given month. It can be hard to stay on top of budgeting!

If you want to read my financial story, I recommend starting here. All of my other posts related to the topic of money can be found here.

Spending:

Spending
green = this year; yellow = last

Spending (this month only)
green = this year; yellow = last

• We have spent less this month, so far, than we did last year or even last month! Yay!
• Problem areas seem to be food (Justin's fault) and travel (mine).
• But look at how little (clothes) shopping I've done recently! I'd call that a win! :)
• Justin managed to get the sebring fixed last month, so gas (despite being higher in cost) should be lower overall this month. (He was driving a Ford F-150.)
• Fees and charges: We had to pay for our Chase Sapphire rewards card which we agreed was worth it. Since owning it, we have been able to book and pay for 4 one way seats on Amtrak from NYC to Boston (~$400), reserve rooms at the Hyatt Regency Jersey City Hotel (~$200) and Hotel Bellevue ($486.47) in Dresden making our total cost of owning the card this year ~+$986.47. Yeah, I think it's worth owning/paying a fee for. :)
• 90% of the business service charges and $150 spent in travel will be reimbursed.

Income

Income
green = this year; yellow = last

• Income should be higher this month than last, which will help us with our goals.

Net Income

Net Income Graph
green = positive; red = negative

• We faced a slump from November to January and then overcame it. Our current average is +$882/month. I'd like to see that number improved, and I'm sure it will once August falls of the graph (when we bought my car).
• Then again, ticket prices for Paris just went up (and we don't have ours yet). :( I'm not sure what to expect from that and how it will affect our net income.

Numbers
• June 2021 loan payoff date (improved by one month!)
• Jan 2017 credit card payoff date (worse by two months)
• emergency fund: $10,813 out of $12,000 goal
• Investments @ -5.13% :(
• Justin got approved for the Delta Gold Amex! So his credit score went up, he will be receiving 60,000 Delta miles, and a $50 credit!
• He also got approved for the Citi Double Points Rewards Card which, when we cancel our Capital One Venture, will put an additional $50/yr back in our pockets and still give us the 2% back we deserve!

How do you keep yourself accountable? Do you have a budget that you look at monthly? What are some of the best ways you've found to save money?

That Sinking Feeling… #MoneyMonday

Sometimes it feels like money just flies away

I'm soo tired.

By that, I mean I'm tired physically, but also mentally. I'm tired of spending money to save money (or in some cases, make money). I'm tired of staying on top of our finances to pay down debt. I'm tired, I'm tired, I'm tired. Paying down debt is not invigorating; it's stressful.

Anyone else know the feeling?

The problem I've been forced to face and deal with this month is the following:

As humans we are given only a finite amount of time on earth. If you want to do something, you only have a limited time in which to do it. Making matters more complicated – there are only so many years in one's life in which they have the freedom and energy in which to be adventurous. Aside from God himself, who knows how long my husband and I have to travel and experience life?

So, with that being said, Justin and I went on dates this month. We went out to eat, explored Atlanta, sat through a book talk, and started thinking about traveling to NYC for a summer vacation. And with that: we spent money. More money than we should have, but less than we could have.

Can I just say that I hate being young-ish and in debt?

It makes every choice that much more complicated. Do I want to x or put that money toward debt? And if I choose debt, am I giving up a time-saver? So then my decisions are – save time by purchasing a thing or pay off debt and lose time … that we are already short on.

Am I giving up experiences? Do I get one less chance to see and do something because I have to put that money toward a thing that I already saw and did? … that thing that was suppose to pay out in a big way and get me a job making millions of dollars a year?

Then when you have friends and family involved, paying down debt becomes even more complicated. You can't (or shouldn't) pass on weddings and events just to pay down debt more quickly. I mean: what does that tell them? That you're ability to pay down debt is more important than your relationship with them? Umm… no. Relationships are always more important. Always, always, always. I would rather owe a million dollars than be alone in this world. Relationships are priority.

So how do you balance life experiences, relationships, and debt-paydown?

Honestly, I don't know.

Here are the graphs from this month's attempt:

Spending
green = this year; yellow = last

• Spent more this month than March 2015 and more than we spent in February 2016. There may be a few store returns that we make which might get us back on track, but we'll see…

Income
green = this year; yellow = last


• YAY! We made more money this month than we did last year! Woot!

Net Income Graph
green = positive; red = negative

• Particularly glad to see more green in this graph. We were struggling the last time I checked

And Numbers?
• November 2016 payoff date for credit cards
• July 2021 payoff date for student loans
• Investments down 5.54% :(

So, what are your thoughts on debt payoff? If you owe on student loans, do you get as frustrated as myself and my husband when deciding how to spend money during the month? If you are debt free, do you have any good advice for me?

First Financial Report of 2016

Image source.

It would seem that the fourth Monday in a month is the best time for me to look at finances. The first Monday Justin hasn't been paid … sometimes money hasn't been sorted by the second, and the third Monday is a book review. So fourth Monday it is! … whether I like it or not.

Let's start with the good:
• We began the year with a bang in Germany before moving on to Czech Republic and France. It was awesome, and I could never regret it. ever.
• We spent time with friends that we've only seen in person twice before. Another situation where there are no regrets.
• We went to shows (The Rockettes, Moulin Rouge, a concert at St. Chapelle) … and I only kind of regret 1 of the 3. But if I had never gone, I would never have known… So no regrets there.
• We went to a good mix of cheap and expensive restaurants in Europe. Then, the mean wife that I am, I let Justin go bar hopping. I got warm drinks on a cold night … so … no regrets?

Are you noticing a theme?

Everything we did on our trip was worth it. I would do it all again.

BUT, that being said, I also learned some valuable lessons. For example: It's hard to plan a trip and get all of your work done beforehand during the Christmas season. Packing light when you don't have time to actually contemplate what you are packing is also difficult. Then, if you don't pack light, you have to pay for taxis or struggle on the metro. I mean, honestly, there were too many lessons to count and not all of them had to do with being too stressed to pack smartly. Most of the lessons did have to do with money though. Perhaps in the future we will be able to save more money while traveling than we did this time. … Or at least that's my goal. And not on restaurants or spending time with friends, I'm talking about not wasting money on silly mistakes and getting hotel rooms with points.

A few other high points not having to do with travel:
• I didn't shop for or buy clothes this month! (Even at 40% off!)
• Our assets are higher now than they were last year at this time! Woot!
• Taxes are done.
• Through strategic planning, we are getting 4% back on car insurance!
• Received a free thermostat! $240 value! :)

Anyway, now let's talk about the bad, because there is a lot of it this month.
• While we were in Europe we received a notification that my husband's Serve account had been closed. No more manufactured spend or 1% credit card transfer fees for us! :(
• We spent more this month than we did in January 2015, but less than we did in December 2015…

Spending Graph
green = this year; yellow = last

• Income is 1k less than last year and 2k less than last month. :(

Income Graph
green = this year; yellow = last

• Net income is on the edge. If we don't spend much this week, we will probably break even.

Net Income Graph
green = positive; red = negative

• Debts. :( They look better in the graph to follow because of how much we paid off with student loans last year, but the graph does not include our car loan. Add 15K to our number. Car loans and student debt aren't pretty my friends. Don't do it unless you have to. Current payoff date is remaining steady at Feb. 2023. 

Debts Graph

• Credit Card Payoff date: December 2016.

Goals for next month?
• Sell something.
• Pay off one credit card. Transfer money from one card to a 0% APR card, if possible.
• Buy less food.
• Do something fun – once with friends, once without. Or both with friends. Whatever.
• Don't shop for clothes! (Experiences are better.)
• Start investing in stocks?

So … how is January going for you? Do you have your finances under control? Or did traveling take a toll on them? Do you have big plans for staying on track come February?

2015 Financial Review

In 2013, I filled out an all encompassing financial review which I've been doing every year since (2014, this year). I like taking the chance to dig deeper into the financial posts I have been sharing for the past 36 months as we work to pay down debt, save as much as possible, and lean toward the possibility of owning property in the future.

Where are we?


We currently owe about $1,000 less than we did last year and $2,000 less than the year before. That's not too shabby considering we bought a car this year. Yes, I would like to see those numbers lower and I am a little disappointed that we didn't pay down more debt. Nevertheless, adding a huge amount of debt, like in a car purchase, we could have easily taken on far more debt than we did. The day we bought the car, and in the week after, I was so upset. It was the thought that all of the money we had spent paying off debt over the past 6 months was just going to be obliterated, like it never happened. I'm glad to see that the fallout, while bad, wasn't as bad as it could have been. For that, I take comfort.


Look! This makes me soooo happy! Over the last year we have reduced our student loan debt by almost $10,000!!!! We still have a long way to go, but seeing the difference from 2013/2014 and 2014/2015 makes me so glad we refinanced Justin's student loans. My suspicion is that next year we will see even more of a decrease than that since we didn't refinance until midway through the year. Perhaps a $20,000 decrease next year? Or more since we won't be buying a car? I can only hope…

Our payoff date is still remaining steady at Feb. 2023. (8 years?! Blech!)


Credit card debt is down by about $2000? Maybe? I mean – at least it's down and not up. We're looking at a May 2016 payoff date, but that may or may not get moved around since we have a few interest free credit cards. It's much better, in my opinion, to have a debt that isn't growing while paying down a debt that is (due to interest rates). Of course the interest free card option won't always be available. Our goal is always to pay off the interest free card that we owe on by the time the interest free period ends – whether that means moving the money around (using, at most, a 1% transfer fee) or paying it off completely (always the preference).


A $5,000 increase in assets is nothing to sneeze at. We had our peak in June reaching a high of $9,000 more in savings than we had in 2014, but that quickly dwindled away with the purchase of a car and computer. Oh well. Better luck next year?


Last year, this was the chart that made me most happy. This year I just want to hide my face in shame. Of course Mint is partially to blame, but they fixed the error of their ways sometime in October/November, so I had the chance to get back on track for a few months. Plus, knowing there was a problem, I could have tracked my expenses more closely. But I didn't. :( This year we spent approximately $11,000 more than we did last year (car purchase included). Granted by August there was no way for us to make up for the extra $10,000 in spend; it was what it was. BUT we could have spent less in the months following by eating out less and shopping less. Even a meager $500 a month over the course of 4 months adds up! Maybe in 2016 I'll get back on track; after all, spending less than you did the year before is not exactly an easy task. I do believe it is one of the most difficult financial goals we currently have!


Our net income was another disappointment this year. In July we bought Justin a computer, me a tablet, and then screens to fix both of our phones. It was pretty miserable, but we were confident we could overcome the excess spend in August … That is, until we discovered that I needed a new car. :( Another month down for the count. Then, I was struggling to get my act together for preparing for our European vacation shortly. When I finally realized the trip was coming whether or not I was ready, we ended up spending far too much in November buying boots, sweaters, cell phones, hotel stays, train tickets, show tickets, etc… At least this month, when we finally get to where we are going, we will mostly be paying for food and activities. So that's nice. (#excuses)

As an aside, we had an average monthly net income of +$1,200. Overall, it's not too bad. An increase for 2016 would be nice though. I'd love to pull the net income that I did in the early months of 2015 in 2016 (+$2,000).


Our net worth is gradually improving. It's improved by approximately $4,000 from last year, a notable increase from the $2,000 increase last year. And by increase, I really mean decrease. As in we are in the negative now working our way toward positive – a few thousand at a time.


Stocks are down by 1.7%, but they fluctuate so much on a day to day and weekly/monthly/yearly basis… Neither Justin nor I directly handle our stocks. With so much debt, we're trying to focus on that. One day though I'd like to learn about the stock market and play around with it. I've heard doing so is kind of like finding a great sale at your favorite store. I could totally get behind that. :)


Interest charged – I think we learned our lesson. Of course, this only coincides with credit cards. We've also saved a lot on interest charges this year with regards to our student loan consolidation. Yay Earnest!

Overview of the biggest impacts on our finances in 2014:
1. Car purchase. Ouch.
2. Huge tax refund! Wow!
3. Travel. Yay!
4. Student loan refinancing. Less interest.
5. Electronics upgrades. Needed.

So where were the downfalls? What went wrong financially this year?
1. Having to buy a car. We weren't in a financial position to buy a car without going into more debt. Equally, I wasn't about to buy a car that would need replacing in 5 years; I wanted something that would last. We opted for a more expensive newer model vehicle (yet still used so we wouldn't lose the cost from driving it off of the car lot). It's a nice car, but if I hadn't been worried about paying down debt and keeping my job, I'm not sure I would have gotten it. Justin still drives my old car to work to save on gas, so it was definitely fixable and remains usable despite the problems that caused me to buy the new car in the first place.
2. Traveling. We went to NC, SC, TN, FL, NY, MA, and NJ. It's been a busy year. But we've seen so many people that we love. So financially, it was terrible. But for a million other reasons, it was the right (best) thing to do.
3. Upgraded electronics. Justin got a laptop – his first in over 3 years! Plus we both got iphones and used amazon money to pay for a Nexus 6 to use Project Fi for our trip to Europe. Expensive but probably necessary.
4. Not sticking to budget. When you need something within a 2 or 3 month period, it's hard to not buy the first thing you like. And when you are busy it's hard to think about how much you are spending on food.
5. On the same note, Mint sucking. When they stopped letting me compare month-to-month, I became more susceptible to spending. I didn't have that helpful push to stay below 2014's budget. It's back working now, so goal for 2016?

What went right this year?
1. Refinancing Justin's student loan. With a lower interest rate, I have confidence we are paying loans down faster than we were before.
2. Getting a large tax refund. It meant we had to start paying down my student loans, but we needed to start doing that anyway…
3. Keeping credit card debt at 0% interest rates. We did open up new cards to keep that interest rate, but it should help in the long run…
4. Taking on some awesome jobs to get things for free – hotel stays ($600+ value), dinners, movies, books, music, and a smart thermostat ($240 value)! Yay!
5. We paid off one loan in full. :)

What are our plans/goals for next year?
1. Paying off a debt of some sort. Preferably credit card debt, but I'd take any debt.
2. Sell things. We started working on that some this year, but we didn't get very far…
3. Spend less than we did in 2016 but still have awesome life experiences. I know it's possible!
4. Cut out unnecessary spending. Dropbox, credit cards with fees, and an unused cell line are the ones that come to mind right now.
5. Get credit scores even higher. They are hanging in the lower to mid-700s for both of us, but I love the idea of having a high range 700 score or even 800!
6. Save more. I'd love to find a high(er) interest savings account and take advantage of bank deals for opening new accounts. (Free money ftw?!)

What are your financial goals for 2016? Are there things you are particularly proud to have accomplished in 2015? Anything you are particularly disappointed in? What did you learn this year that you hope will influence your spending and budgeting goals for 2016?

* I'm participating in Susannah Conway's December Reflections. Are you? Today's post was a response to #24 on the list "One Year Ago".

November 2015 Finance Report

One, two, three, four … Tell me that you love me more.
Sleepless long nights; that is what my youth is for.

A bit later than usual, but here it is: the good, the bad, and the evil.

Spending –


Not looking good, my friends. Not looking good. What has happened to our drive? What has happened to the appeal of paying down debt and saving? Clothes and food; that's what. Apparently traveling to a country where it snows in the winter means it is unacceptable to wear short sleeves and flip flops. Go figure. Hopefully we are almost to the end of that spending spree – just in time for Christmas shopping! Woo! :-/

As an aside, Mint has fixed the problem where you couldn't see last year's spending, so yay! Now I don't really have an excuse not to compare and spend less. That being said, will I? Can I? My challenge begins December 1st! I will conquer this madness! I must!

Net Income –


Keeping on, keeping on… I have one more paycheck this month, so we should stay in the green. We just have to keep spending less than we are making, and I'm not sure Mint helps us see either what we are spending or what we are making. I've heard You Need A Budget (YNAB) is a great app, but I don't want to pay for it. I guess I just need to sit down with a calculator and spreadsheet and write out our daily expenses. Life just gets so hectic sometimes that it's hard to keep up. I don't know of a better way to save money though than to do something like that. Readers, any ideas or suggestions?

Net Worth –

I usually show this, but the accounts look off. It's showing we owe almost $10,000 more in students loans than we do, and I don't approve of that being posted on the internet. How can I owe $10,000 more in student loans if I haven't gone back to school? Answer: Nelnet is a terrible company to take out student loans with. They closed my accounts and reopened them, but why? Will that affect my credit score? Is Mint just sucking at finances? … I have no idea. Maybe on my day off, Wednesday, I can re-set Mint and figure all of this out. It's possible I need to make a phone call to Nelnet or potentially question the authenticity of my credit report. If I discover any of this needs to happen, I'll be sure to report on it during my next finance check in December.

In the meantime –

• Projected credit card payoff is June 2016 (one month later than last month's projection)
• Projected loan payoff remains steady at Feb. 2023.
• Investments are only down by 1.01% (a 2% difference from last month, which is an improvement. Yay!)
• Justin and I are continuing to improve our *very good* credit scores which will make it easier to get low interest loans, credit cards, and bank rewards in the future. 800s, here we come!

And to make myself feel a little better, I must admit I was totally a frugal gotta-get-a-return-on-spending goddess this weekend. We used Discover for the 5% (doubled) cashback bonus at Macy's, Free People, and Anthropologie, used our phones to find the best price for warm winter wear for Justin, abused coupons, went through online portals (Topcashback ftw!), and even called companies to get price matches. I am trying very hard to be on top of this spending game.

In Conclusion

I hate to keep reporting all bad with finances, but I want to be honest with you and myself – not hiding from the truth. Budgeting sucks. Not spending is awful, and keeping your spending to a minimum when you have two people involved is really complicated! Why can't they always just give you the best price possible and keep the couponing, price-matching, portal shopping, and credit card using out of it! It hurts my head!

How are you doing on finances this November? Keeping ahead? Falling behind? Sick of seeing my posts where I'm not actually improving and just want to slap me silly and tell me to quit spending? Share your good news and provide me with a reason to keep working at this! Or let me know that I'm not alone at this. Either way, I'd love to hear from you!

October 2015 Finance Report

Just realized I did not do a financial/budget report for September. Oops.

Let me be honest with you. – It's hard.

When I began writing about our finances, it was to keep us on track. We were doing good … or at least I thought we were. We were paying down student loans (which I hate!), we weren't getting into too much more debt, and although slow, progress was evident. Then we were forced to move from our home, buy a new vehicle, and travel to Europe within a 3 month timespan. Ouch. But we turned that around. We paid off the vehicle, got our interest rates down, and we were back to working on our goals of building an emergency fund and paying down our debt with the ultimate goal of saving for a house in our future.  As of August, I was feeling pretty good about our finances.

Then, my car broke down 3 times in one month. Three. So we bought a new(er) car.

Maybe we should have gone for a cheaper car?

… Then again, we were short on time (limited to a weekend) and I was depressed. We ended up just buying the first thing I somewhat liked.

Either way, we found ourselves back in the same financial position we were in in October 2014 … which is the same place we were at in December 2013. Argh. Forty thousand dollars of payback over two years and we are full circle back to where we started. (Note: The car we bought was not $40,000!) Needless to say, it's frustrating beyond belief. Some days I wonder if we will ever have our loans fully paid off.

Anyway, #endrant. Here's where we stand today, which may be better or worse off tomorrow, next month, or next year… We'll see.


Spending – Honestly, this makes me mad and I blame Mint. I really should find new software, which I've said every month for the past few months, but I have to work with my husband to set up new software which is a hassle when you are short on time most of the time anyway. Point being: we spent too much last month. I've been comparing to the month before rather than my 2014 stats like I had been doing in early 2015. Comparing to 2014 keeps me on track; comparing to 2015 does not. :( Does anybody out there have a suggestion for a company to transfer to? I usually don't mind doing research, but giving our financial information to all of the companies seems like a bad idea. I just want a good comparison feature! Can I please just have that?


Net Income – We are currently saving approximately $400 less a month this year than we did last. And this isn't even completely accurate since our car loan isn't included in this equation. *sigh* But it does include our $7000 car down payment, so that minimizes the difference a bit, I think. Also, it must be further stated that my husband and I are currently bringing in less money than we did last year at this time. Not sure if it's because we have more going into the stock market or if I am simply making less. It could be both…


Net worth – Assets are down; debts are up. In conclusion, our net worth makes me unhappy.

And FWIW:

• Stocks are down 3.37%
• Projected credit card payoff is May 2016.
• Projected loan payoff is Feb 2023. (Three years later than it was in July.)
• Justin and I both have really good credit scores! Yay!

I'd like to end on a happy note and say that, despite my ranting, I am so grateful for every experience and every person in my life. I am lucky to have the friends and family I have and to lead the life I do. No amount of money (positive or negative) will ever change that.

How are you doing with your 2015 financial goals?  Do you ever get frustrated with paying off debt like I do? Do you know of any websites that do finances better than Mint?

Joining The Points Game

If you can afford it, that is.

Over the next few weeks (until Christmas, that is) I intend on sharing my attempt at joining the points game. Justin and I have a trip planned to NYC, Paris, and Germany and we're going to see how much we can pay in points and how little we can pay overall.

Here's where we are at:

• 66,000 Ultimate Reward (Sapphire) points
• 91,000 IHG points (spire status)
• 59,000 Delta points
• 43,00 Hilton points (gold status)

and just for arguments sake:

• 5,000 Marriott points
• 7,000 Club Carlson points (gold status)

Here's what I've accomplished so far:

• Booked flight for 2 at a price of $1,100 (for both tickets total) flying from NYC to Paris RT for Dec. 27 – Jan. 10.

What we are looking at doing:
• Fly to NYC from ATL on Dec.25
• Fly from NYC to Paris Dec. 27
• Train from Paris to Strasbourg (to see a Christmas Market) Dec. 30 (maybe?)
• Continue the rest of the way to Germany Dec. 31 (early morning)
• Who knows? (Spend time with friends.) Dec 31 – Jan. 9
• Train back to Paris Jan. 9.
• Fly from Paris to NYC Jan. 10
• Fly home Jan. 11 (night)

My research thus far:

• I can get a RT flight from ATL to NYC for the dates I want at a cost of 50,000 Delta points and $20 or I can pay $300+.
• Taking Amtrak to NYC is only 30,000 UR points but it requires 17 hours of train time. :(
• I spent 10 hours researching hotels in NYC for Dec. 25-27. I really like the idea of staying at the Waldorf Astoria to see all of the Christmas lights, but I've heard the hotel is kind of run down and not too impressive (19,000 HHonors points or $243). Other options I've looked at are the Intercontinental Times Square (40,000 IHG points + $70 or $306), Hyatt Andaz Fifth Avenue (25,000 UR points or $545) and Hilton Times Square (24,000 UR/Hilton points or $299.24). Pana Travel Concierge App has also recommended a few hotels to me that I will have to check out.
• I can book flights to Germany from Paris for 30,000 UR points + and are more expensive; I'd rather pay the fare and travel by train.
• Train tickets to Germany are looking to be about $100 straight from Paris or $150 if I include a stopover in Strasbourg. (information via Pana)
• Strasbourg has (supposedly) one of the best Christmas markets in Europe (that is still open at that time of year) and is not too far out of the way for where we are going to in Germany. Still trying to decide if that's worth giving up a day in Paris though.

My expectations:

• free flight to NYC?
• $1100 spent on flights from NYC to Paris
• $250-ish RT train tickets per person between Germany and Paris
• 2-3 free hotel nights can be booked with UR points
• 2-3 free hotel nights with IHG points
• 1-2 free hotel nights with Hilton points

* Justin and I will have one more Hilton stay before our trip which is probably the equivalent of between 6,000 and 10,000 more points. (Yay mystery shopping! Possible extra night free.)
* We are talking about staying at 2 more IHG hotels to take advantage of the accelerate promotion and obtain an additional 40,000 IHG points (the equivalent of one free night at a hotel!).
* We could potentially use our Discover Card discount to get money off of a car rental.

Finally, what I need to do:

• Book the Hilton and IHG stays (from expectations).
• Talk to boss about time off. (Because duh.)
• Figure out trip insurance.
• Find warm clothes. (We live in Georgia where it is warm 75% of the year.)
• Book free flight to NYC.
• Decide on NYC hotel & book.
• Research things to do in NYC.
• Find out if friend is joining us in Paris.
• Research and book Paris hotel/Airbnb.
• Figure out what we want to do in Paris.
• Book train tickets to Strasbourg (or straight to Germany, whichever).
• If we are staying one night in Strasbourg, research and book hotel.
• Car rental for Germany.
• Research and book hotel/airbnb.
• Talk to friends about plans. (Because seriously.)
• Enjoy!

So what do you think? Will I be able to pull off the points game with this trip? Are you interested in following my progress as I plan? Do you have any suggestions regarding my itinerary or points planning? Or questions? Share! I'd love to hear about your own points planning adventures or struggles! I'm sure I'm not the only one with the goal of free or cheap travel in mind…