Books to Read in a Lifetime

Amazon editors came up with a list of 100 books to read in a lifetime. And in similar fashion, Goodread is asking their readers to take a vote on what books they think should be included in a similar list. When I was going through the list of Amazon books, there were many I had not read; the list on Goodreads had far more books that I actually have read. I realize that yesterday I shared a few books that are tempting me and in the past I have blogged about young adult books that made a difference in my life, but today I wanted to blog about the books from the Goodreads list and what I recommend (or don't recommend as the case may be) for those looking for an awesome winter read.


1. To Kill A MockingBird by Harper Lee

I read this book at the beginning of high school, and I have to say it definitely started me out on the right track. It was a fun read. Honestly, I don't remember what it was about though. :( Nevertheless, you should read it at least once in your life. Just because. :)

2. Anne Frank: The Diary of a Young Girl by Anne Frank

This is the diary of a young Jewish girl growing up during World War 2. She recounts what life is like just after her 13th birthday as she changes during the war years from a young girl to a young woman. Unfortunately, the story is cut short, much like her life, and the reader is left to imagine (or research) what life is like for her following the capture of her family by the Nazis.

3. Little Women by Louisa May Alcott

I've actually already reviewed this book here.

It's the story of a poor family of four girls who are growing up in New England during the Civil War.

4. Jane Eyre by Charlotte Bronte

Jane Eyre is an orphan that has a very difficult childhood. Things take a turn as she grows up and becomes a governess caring for a young French girl and befriends her employer. Things are not as they seem though, and when secrets come out, changes are in store for Jane.

5. Gone With the Wind by Margaret Mitchell

A very dramatic love triangle that takes place in the South during the Civil War, Scarlett has a schoolgirl crush on Ashley who has his eyes on sweet Melody. As is usually the case in situations like these, Ashley and Melody get married with Scarlett still trying to win over Ashley, who is simply not interested. Cue the yankees who have come to destroy Atlanta. Rhett Butler, someone who Scarlett loves to hate, rescues her and her family removing them from her home plantation just in the knick of time, but nothing would ever be the same. With fire having destroyed all she is familiar with, Scarlett must re-discover who she is and what she wants out of life.

6. The Catcher in the Rye by J.D. Salinger

If this is THE ONLY book on my list that you are willing to read or can read, DO IT. This is one of the best books of all time! :)

Taken straight from the first pages of the book:
"If you really want to hear about it, the first thing you'll probably want to know is where I was born and what my lousy childhood was like, and how my parents were occupied and all before they had me, and all that David Copperfield kind of crap, but I don't feel like going into it, if you want to know the truth. In the first place, that stuff bores me, and in the second place, my parents would have about two hemorrhages apiece if I told anything pretty personal about them."
The story, written in 1951, is humorous, edgy, and on the list of banned books. The main character is 16 and incredibly sarcastic.

Honestly, no teenage-hood is complete without this book. And if you did manage to grow up without reading this book, you really should read it. There are no other books quite like it. :)

7. Anne of Green Gables by Lucy Maud Montgomery

This is the story of a young orphan who finds a place in the home of two unlikely siblings. They initially adopt her thinking she is a boy and can help them by working on the farm, but they soon fall in love with the redhead that has been sent instead. See here for a previous review.

8. Where the Sidewalk Ends by Shel Silverstein

A classic children's poetry book, complete with wordplay and silly lessons ideal for those who aren't sure if they like poetry or even want to read it. I would go so far as to say that no home is complete without this book on the bookshelf.

9. A Tree Grows in Brooklyn by Betty Smith

How I made it out of childhood without reading this amazing piece of literature I am not sure. The story is a coming of age novel about a young immigrant girl growing up in Brooklyn. She finds beauty in the small things in life, and truthfully, you just want to befriend her on the spot. It was a very fun read, and one I can't wait to return to again!

10. Memoirs of a Geisha

I watched the movie first and fell in love with the story and the beauty found within the movie. Shortly thereafter, I went to a thrift shop and bought the book for $1. Unfortunately, the book sat on my bookshelf for years as I read other books and did everything BUT read. Then it was time. Last summer, I picked up the book, attempting to start reading again, and I found myself feeling like a child again. Every summer afternoon after work, I would read and read and read to my hearts content. I think I finished the book in a week. :)

Anyway, the book is also about an orphan (apparently I like reading about orphans?). Sayuri is sold off to a geisha house in Japan where she must learn the art of becoming a geisha; there are dire consequences if she does not complete her training and make money for the house-mother. Complications arise and her future career is threatened. Then things get even worse when all of the geisha houses must be evacuated during World War 2. Can Sayuri make something of herself? Can she get out of the geisha lifestyle and live a life of freedom?


1. Charlotte's Web by E.B. White

Come on! Childhood classic! :)

2. Brave New World by Aidous Huxley

I started reading this in college, but I still have no idea what it's about. Can anyone fill me in? I really need to purchase a copy and get back to reading it! :)

3. Wuthering Heights by Emily Bronte

How I managed to read one Bronte sister's work without the other is simply beyond me! Clearly this must be remedied!

4. Rebecca by Daphne Du Meurier

I have no idea what this book is about, but I have had it on my bookshelf since grade school. It must be awesome, right? :)

5. Anna Karenina by Leo Tolstoy

I don't know. It just sounds like a book I would like. I also have a copy of War and Peace on my bookshelf waiting to be read.

6. Alice in Wonderland by Lewis Carroll

The name "Alice" has been passed down through my husband's family for the last few generations and all of the girls (except me, of course) owns an "Alice" doll. Plus, I've started reading the book a bit on Justin's ipad when I'm bored and it is soooo funny! And cute! And adorable! And simply a perfect, easy read! I totally recommend it even though I'm only in the second chapter! :)

7. Water for Elephants by Sara Gruen

I saw this movie not even knowing what to expect and I fell in love with it. Now that the book has made the list of lifetime books that must be read, I know it should be on my list of books that must be read too!

8. The Princess Bride by William Goldman

Justin introduced me to the movie in high school, and even though I knew there was a book it was based on, I never took the time to add it to my list of future must reads. Guess what? It is there now.


9. The Chronicles of Narnia by C.S. Lewis

I saw the movie; I bought the book. Have I read it? No. Maybe someday. Apparently this is one childhood book I missed out on.

10. The Story of My Life by Helen Keller

I was obsessed with Helen Keller's story in elementary school. (What can I say? I like hearing about strong-willed women!) I'm not sure how I missed the fact that she had a biography. Very cool. On the list. :)


1. Pride and Prejudice by Jane Austen

I had to read this for school. Never again. I know soooo many people like it, but I am not one of them. The story was complicated and drawn out. I had to use the internet to even figure out what the author was trying to say half the time! No, thank you!

2. The Hobbit by J. R. R. Tokin

I started reading it after The Lord of the Rings came out in theatres. Everyone else I knew loved the stories by Tolkin! I just knew I would too. Unfortunately, I did not. I got a few chapters in and set the book aside never to be touched again. Justin says it gets better; I was too bored with the book to ever find out. Maybe someday I'll try again.

3. The Great Gatsby by F. Scott Fitzgerald

I would LOVE to like this book. I was soooo looking forward to reading this in high school. But I didn't like it. End of story.

4. The Adventures of Huckleberry Finn by Mark Twain

The language made this book difficult to read. Oh and the never-ending projects in my 11th grade classroom.

5. The Raven by Edgar Allan Poe

Poe was a dark writer and The Raven was no exception. I'm not sure if this poem scared me or was just too dark for my tastes, but I will be happy to never read or analyze this poem again.

Anyone ever seen The Simpsons version?



6. Hamlet/Romeo and Juliet/MacBeth by William Shakespeare

Shakespeare. YUCK. I read these for school, but I just can't recommend these for any other reason. The language is complicated. And how do people feel knowing that so many of these are used to explain psychological problems? Eeek!

7. The Secret Garden by Frances Hodgson Burnett

I really wanted to love this book and I read it multiple times from elementary school on up through high school, but it never sat well with me. Oh well. Perhaps I'll stick with the movies.

8. Of Mice and Men by John Steinbeck

I think 11th grade was a rough year for me and reading.

9. Lord of the Flies by William Golding

Or maybe I had a teacher that liked odd books?

10. The Time Traveler's Wife by Audrey Niffenegger

This book was really popular at the time I read it, so I knew it would be good. Maybe it would have been if I had been a little older? Either way, it is not a book I really have any ambition of reading again any time soon.

What books on this list are you in love with? Which do you hate?! Are there any you can't wait to add to your bookshelf? Can you think of any books Goodread has forgotten about? Feel free to share your thoughts with me or go vote on Goodread's site!

3 Books Anthropologie Tempts Me With

Every time I go into Anthropologie, I make a beeline for the book section, specifically the section where the books are on sale. Anthropologie always chooses the most creative, beautiful books you can imagine to carry in their stores, and it is always oh-so-very-tempting to buy every single book they have available. Unfortunately, for my wallet, that would be a very bad decision. (Perhaps this would not be the case for my bookshelf!) Here is a list of 3 books sold at Anthropologie that I am currently coveting:



I may have looked at this book once or twice in stores a few months ago, but I had actually, for the most part, forgotten about it until I received a guide to Paris from a friend for Christmas. I can't say much about the book since I don't actually own it, but reviews have suggested that the book has stunning architectural photography and that the book is fun for finding those hidden lesser known streets of Paris, places that I would love to explore. This just might be a book I buy at full price since I cannot even imagine going to Paris without it.



The other day Justin was listening to one of my favorite shows on NPR, The Splendid Table with Lynne Rossetto Kasper, and she was interviewing Joe Warwick who had compiled a guide of where chefs' favorite restaurants are all over the world. I didn't actually listen to the broadcast with Justin, holding off until today, when I decided to write this post. Justin's immediate knee-jerk reaction was that this may be a great companion book for our trip to Europe. Reviews on Amazon aren't too strong, so we may have to give the book a second look and actually reconsider it. In the mean time, I'm adding the book to my list as one of Anthropologie's most tempting books, if only because of the concept the book was based upon; who doesn't want to eat where chefs eat?



Justin and I were in line to return an item at Anthropologie when this book caught Justin's eye. Girly books rarely catch his eye, so obviously we need to gaze at it for the rest of the time we were in line (which actually was only about 30 seconds). It was inspiring and a bit astonishing to see how real the florals looked, and it was exciting to think that someone had put together a book showing non-crafters and crafters alike how to recreate the beauty of these fantastic pieces of art.

What kinds of books are tempting you today? Are there any books that speak to you in the line up at Anthropologie? Do you have another awesome (perhaps vintage?) bookstore that always has the most perfect book for you or anyone else on your to-buy-for list? Or perhaps you like the deals found on Amazon the best! Share with me! I'd love to hear about awesome books and bookstores I may not be aware of! :)

The 5 C's for Group Travel

Fifth grade was a big year for me.

Did anyone else have a lot of research projects in the 5th grade? I spent most of the year researching everything from birds to culture and even Disney World! (Yes, I got to research the happiest place on earth for a grade!!) I have to give kudos to my teacher though, because she was awesome. She (in not so many words) told me that I could do anything I put my mind to. My grades soared as I was challenged both creatively and mentally. I can't actually think of a time when that happened again until college.

It was also the first year that I began to plan family vacations. We never went very far, but I would always research everything extensively. My parents would give me a budget, and I would use the internet to find the best hotel and the most amazing things to do on said budget. (Great idea to teach children budgeting, parents!!)

Not much has changed since then. I still love planning vacations, and I still research everything to death. The one thing that has changed is who I am researching for when I am planning these elaborate adventures.

This past summer I had the chance to help my in-laws plan a vacation to NYC and Boston. Of course, Justin talked me up to his parents about how awesome I am at planning things on the cheap, blah, blah, blah … but when it came time to do the actual planning, our group communication left much to be desired. Yes, we eventually figured everything out, BUT we went from having a year to hone in our plans … to a month. Do you know how much less research you can actually do in a month compared to a whole year? Yeah…

Fast forward a bit.

Now we are planning a trip to Europe with some folks overseas. Luckily, we figured out our communication errors prior to a month before the trip. (That's progress!) However, planning a trip with people you cannot talk with (often) face-to-face has it's own challenges. Imagine putting together a presentation or school project with someone you can only text and e-mail with; difficult, yes?

Now imagine their first language is something entirely different from your own. Yes, everyone (I'm talking about) speaks English, but to what degree? Can you find ways to simplify what you are saying, including the number of words used, in order to communicate the most effectively? (No, don't pretend you are proficient or even good at speaking their language!)*

Then, to make things even more confusing, I'm already terrible at understanding what people want when I can see their body language, so you can imagine it gets even worse for me when I can't see it.

I read an article on NPR recently where they were talking about how you are far more passionate when speaking your native language. Words from other languages often don't contain quite the same emotional meanings as the ones in your own language. (i.e. "I love you" to an Italian may hold the same emotional value as "I like steak" to an American. I mean – really, who doesn't like steak?)

So along with the already struggling communication through e-mail and text, you then have less meaningful text to try to discern because the people you are communicating with do not share the same emotional language as you. Crazy, right?! Or cool. Or something. ;)**

Inevitably, we decided to skype. Not quite the same as having a discussion with your in-laws over dinner about what there is to see and do in NYC, but I'm 90% positive the little talk helped with our communication gap. Or at least we were able to decide which car to lease. :)

The 5 C's For Group Travel

1. Communicate.

Don't assume the other person knows what you want to do or how you want to get there/do it. 

As you may have heard, Justin and I were initially planning a week-long trip; our friends were planning on us taking a month-long trip. Justin and I were planning on renting a large car big enough for 4; our friends assumed they would be driving separately. I can't think of any other misunderstandings, but I can tell you that if you don't communicate, they will happen.

2. Confirm.

Talk a bit, and then confirm. Confirm, confirm, confirm. ESPECIALLY before everything is set in stone.

I just rented an apartment for one night longer than we are suppose to stay in Germany, because I did not take the time to confirm with my co-travelers. Was I being lazy? Was I worried about bothering them? Perhaps both. Either way, I would have saved myself money, time, and hassle if I had confirmed with them prior to booking the stay.

3. Compromise.

If you say you want to go to option A, and someone else wants to go to Option B, decide how much you really want to go to option A. Is it a must-see or just a would-like-to-see on your list? Can you find an alternative that would suit your preferences just as well? Are you open to going to places that you may not have even thought about before?

4. Be Considerate.

Both before you go and while you are on the trip, make sure to be considerate of one another. You will be spending a number of hours together, and the last thing you need is arguments and frustration. Take words with a grain of salt; perhaps what was said was not meant. If you need time alone, try your best to find it and take it. Sometimes I get really overwhelmed with a bunch of people and I just need a moment to breathe. After I have my moment, I can come back to the group refreshed and calm. I recommend everyone take that opportunity if they need it.

5. Celebrate!

You are (or are going) on vacation with friends (and/or family)! What isn't there to celebrate?! 

*cue happy dance*


Do you have any recommendations for group travel? Feel free to share with me in the comments below! 

Have a wonderful Wednesday!

*This is when you are grateful for picture texts.
**Makes me think about The Five Love Languages and how one struggles to even understand our spouse's emotional language even though both speak English!!
Also reminds me of a quote I once heard that you can only speak to the heart of someone if you can speak their language. Very cool indeed.
***I'm participating in the SITS girls' February writing prompts. Feel free to join in!!

A Look Back…

It's hard to believe that last week at this time, it was starting to snow…






Chocolate Layer Cake Yumminess!


In case you haven't heard about it, Mast Brothers Chocolate: A Family Cookbook has some phenomenal ideas and fun recipes, but it is not a book for the faint of heart. For one, the recipes are SWEET; do not go into the store to buy a chocolate book and think you are going to go on a diet. It just won't happen; I'm sorry. That being said, you also should not go into the store to buy this book thinking you will become a connoisseur of all things chocolate. Yes, chocolate is delicious, but being able to make these recipes… They are a bit difficult for your everyday, occasional, casual, let's-throw-everything-into-the-crockpot-for-dinner and I-fail-at-making-cake-from-a-box chefs/cooks/bakers/etc. (me). This recipe is for those who never give up and always want to be on top of their chocolate game; this recipe (in Justin's opinion) was untested before being included in the book, and, even after Justin's amazing attempt at birthdaying it up, probably still needs a few more alterations before it can ever be included among the stars of amazing cakes. All of that being said, let's get started!

CAKE 
Ingredients:
6 eggs
2 cups of sugar
2 cups of cake flour
3/4 cup cocoa powder (Hershey's Special Dark Chocolate)
2 tsps baking powder 
Directions:
1. Preheat the oven to 400ºF. Butter a 12-inch round cake pan.
2. In a large bowl, beat eggs and sugar until thick.
3. Combine flour, cocoa powder, and baking powder in a medium bowl and sift them into egg mixture.
4. Fold them lightly until mixture is smooth.
5. Pour batter into cake pan.
6. Bake for 30 mins (or until done).
7. Let cake cool completely.
8. Slice cake horizontally into 4 even layers. 

FROSTING (FOR INSIDE OF CAKE) 
Ingredients:
2 cups sugar
2 cups heavy cream
3 oz. chopped dark chocolate 
Directions:
1. Caramelize sugar over medium heat until golden brown.
2. In a separate saucepan, heat heavy cream. Carefully pour over caramelized sugar.
3. Bring to a boil and dissolve all of the sugar into the cream.
4. Pass caramel through a sieve into a bowl containing the chocolate.
5. Let it melt for 1 minute.
6. Stir in tight circles until emulsified. 

FROSTING (FOR OUTSIDE OF CAKE) 
See Recipe

ASSEMBLE. 
Obviously, the caramelized inner frosting will be spread onto the individual cake layers. Note: WAIT UNTIL THE CAKE IS COOL. PLACE THE INNER FROSTING IN THE FRIDGE FOR A FEW MINUTES BEFORE SPREADING ONTO THE CAKE. Go slow. The caramel frosting easily melted and was quite good at making a huge mess in our very small kitchen when Justin attempted it. If you need to cool the frosting down multiple times, do it. Even after the cake is put together the caramel will continue to melt down if not kept cool. 
Mast Brothers Chocolate: A Family Cookbook only has the first two recipes, but Justin always likes to make 2 different frosting recipes so that the cake seems more complete (and professional). I do not recommend putting the inner frosting on the outer layer of the cake simply because of the huge melting factor. You may do as you wish.

If you like this recipe, I do highly recommend obtaining Mast Brothers Chocolate: A Family Cookbook OR visiting their chocolate shop in New York City. (I've never visited their shop, but I imagine it is amazing.)

So go forth, dear readers, and BAKE!!! :) (Or maybe take a trip to New York if your baking skills are anything like mine.)

Have a sweet Monday! :)

** I received no compensation or anything for reviewing Mast Brothers Chocolate: A Family Cookbook. My opinions are my own. Recipe has been slightly altered according to what Justin used and did when creating his version earlier this month.
*** Please cook your cake fully and do not eat raw eggs. I take no responsibility for sick blog readers who attempt this cake and get sick during/after/while eating it. I also take no responsibility for weight gain caused by this cake. Eat at your own risk.
**** This recipe is not my recipe. Full credit is given to Mast Brothers: A Family Cookbook.

Icy…Icing-y? + Dinosaurs

Once upon a time, there was a cake.


And dinosaur candles came forth to take over said cake.



And there was much rejoicing, because all was right with the world.

Besides, how else is one suppose to celebrate their birthday? Clearly dinosaur candles are the only way to go.

To make this delicious, sickeningly sweet cake you need:
-Justin
-chocolate buttercream icing
-dinosaur candles

If I can coax the actual recipe out of Justin, I'll share on Monday. :) As a teaser, it had caramel in it… Mmmm!!! :)

In the meantime, have a fantastic weekend!!


** A 
January Break using prompts from The Idea Room's Photo-A-Day Challenge. Feel free to join in!

A Challenge: Photographing In the Snow

Yesterday, when Justin and I ventured out into the snow, I could not tap into any creative juices in my head whatsoever. Finding the perfect things to photograph was hard. I get inspiration from so many bloggers and other photographers, but there was a block in my creativity. Part of me wanted to push forward because it never snows in Georgia. And part of me wanted to just enjoy the walk in the snow and not actually worry about symmetry, color, or shooting anything of any particular importance. I didn't want to challenge myself or my skills.

I am sooooo glad that I did.


Otherwise I would have missed seeing the very happy car. :)

I challenge you to go out and do something you consider difficult today. Then come back and share your results. :)

Happy Thursday!


** A 
January Break using prompts from The Idea Room's Photo-A-Day Challenge. Feel free to join in!